如何把网站视频的自动播放改成鼠标点击才播放

mymmoon123

现在网站只要一打开视频就开始播放，想改成点击播放之后才播放的。
视频源码是这样的：
<div class="shipin">
<object class id="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=7,0,19,0" width="314" height="178">
  <param name="movie" value="__PUBLIC__/axph/flv/flvplayer.swf">
  <param name="quality" value="high">
  <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true">
  <param name="FlashVars" value="vcastr_file=__PUBLIC__/axph/flv/123.f4v&BufferTime=3&IsAutoPlay=0">
  <embed src="__PUBLIC__/axph/flv/flvplayer.swf" allowfullscreen="true" flashvars="vcastr_file=__PUBLIC__/axph/flv/123.f4v&IsAutoPlay=0" quality="high" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="314" height="178"></embed>
</object>
</div>